Sometimes in life, we find ourselves at the dead end, a path that leads to nowhere and then you ask yourself ‘what to do with my life?’ Here, I’m going to share the things you don’t know about life.
Well, it’s good to question your own self rather than relying on others to guide you. People will always give opinions but won’t guide you to the path that leads to happiness. It’s difficult to decide at a very young age that what you should choose as a career that will make you happy and prosper for the rest of your life. It’s almost impossible to choose something and be guaranteed about it that it can satisfy you and make you happy your whole life.
People around you will always keep pinching you about your life, what choices you want to make, what you want to do with your life. They won’t let you decide they will impose their own choices.
And sometimes children get affected by the opinions which they get from their elders and then choose a career in which they are really not interested.
My question from people all over the world is, why can’t you just leave your children alone and let them think what they want, what they want to do, just let them be themselves.
Stop imposing your choices. This will ruin their peace of mind, happiness, contentment, and everything. What I have observed in my life is, people will always interfere in your life whether you ask for their help or not, you ask for their opinion or not, they will for sure interfere and give free advice, whether you want or not.
People around you will never be happy with your existence even, they will criticize your body structures, your career choices, the way you live, the way you eat, the way you sleep, they won’t just let you breathe.
Your worries start as soon as you step out in this world, your parents start worrying about your future, your career, your marriage etcetera.
More than your parents-other people around you start worrying about your life when actually they are not worried but curious that what will you do in your life.
What I have observed in my life is that whatever you do in your life people will always criticize, the ones who appreciate are very less in number.
Nobody cares about your happiness but people will just catch your weaknesses and will use them against you.
No matter at what stage you are in life, at which position you are in your current situation, career isn’t making you happy, you’re not satisfied with it, you can quit your job or you can even quit your studies if that field isn’t interesting for you.
It’s not a matter of life and death, you aren’t a puppet to dance, and your strings shouldn’t be attached to people around you, your strings your moves should only be decided by you.
People have set some specific rules for us like it’s very important to get married at a certain age, to get a job at some specific age, as if life is a race and we have to run really fast and if we won’t we will lose the race, when in reality it’s not like that life is so unpredictable, you never know what’s going to happen the next moment, all you have to do is to live the present completely.
What is written for us we don’t know, all we have to do is to trust GOD and put your efforts to make your present better and don’t worry about the future, just keep struggling to keep trying and life will just be perfect!
By Amna Memon